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Monday, December 6, 2010

Let's Eat by Denise Burroughs (Book Review)


Title: Let's Eat!
Author: Denise Burroughs
Publisher: AuthorHouse

My Thoughts: This slim volume starts out with a couple of pages of helpful tidbits for the novice (or even experienced) cook.  You get baking tips, substitutions and handy information.  You will find recipes from pasta to desserts, casseroles to salads. 

The recipes are very simple and can be made from things that you can probably find in your pantry. ( My teenage daughter has already asked if she can have this cookbook when she moves out!)  I think what I liked the best is that she doesn't take for granted that you know what you are doing in the kitchen.  For example, for her potato flaked chicken she says to add cooking oil to the tray - but then says, just enough to coat it, not too deep.  It is those helpful hints that are good for those just starting out in the kitchen.

I was thrilled to see the recipe for mayonnaise cake.  My mom has made this cake for years and years and I have never seen it in a cookbook.  I am forever calling her and asking her for the recipe again, because I am always losing where I wrote it down - so now I have it in a book!  (Until my daughter steals it away from me, of course!)

~ I received a complimentary copy of this book from Pump Up Your Books in exchange for my review.~



About the Author: She was raised in the sun, she came from a large Italian family with very strong ties to their heritage. She was born in Rome, NY and moved to Miami, Florida in December of 1969 with her mother. Raised in South Florida, she attended school until 1983. Having two daughters from her first marriage, she remarried in 1995 and in 2004 moved to Tallahassee, Florida where she currently resides.
She’s the owner of a paint and body shop and a member of NAPEW (National Association of Professional & Executive Women 2007-2008). A love for cooking and a desire to share wonderful family traditions was put to paper to create Let’s Eat. There have been so many people who have inspired her in her life, but no one inspired her more than her mother. Many of the recipes in this book have been served many times over and enjoyed by family and friends. She is happy to share them all with you and hopes you enjoy every bite as they were all made with lots of love.

You can visit Denise at www.deniseburroughs.com.




Publisher/Publication Date: Author House, May 2010
ISBN: 978-1-4490-8731-9
49 pages


Saturday, December 4, 2010

ARC Arrival: Beyond the Wall by Dolores E. Cross


Beyond the Wall: A Memoir
by Dolores E. Cross
WestBow Press

Dolores Cross got a wake-up call, literally and figuratively, at 2:00 one morning, from a man asking who she was and where she was.

As she glanced at the electronic bracelet around her ankle, she made a decision to answer the question of who she was.  Not just to her caller, but to all people who have given themselves to a cause, only to be accused of a crime.

This timely and inspiring memoir emerged from a respected educational administrator's harrowing year under house arrest.  Cross's ordeal became a personal journey to find new understanding, new strength, and hope.  To sustain herself, she drew upon the lessons of memories, taught by her roots, her ancestors, her family, and her personal heroes, in the face of injustice, betrayal, and relentless prosecution.

In Beyond the Wall, Cross examines the external forces that pulled her down into a darkness far from everything she believed in and had accomplished.  To weather the storm, she reflected on the life experiences that had motivated her to accept the presidency of a financially fragile college and the arduous climb from the abyss that followed her resignation.


~I received a complimentary copy of this book from Bohlsen PR.  Watch for my review in January.~

Publisher/Publication Date: WestBow Press, Apr 2010
ISBN: 978-1-4497-0094-2
268 pages



Friday, December 3, 2010

ARC Arrival: The Anatomy of Ghosts by Andrew Taylor



The Anatomy of Ghosts
by Andrew Taylor
Hyperion

1786, England. John Holdsworth, a bookseller and novelist fallen upon hard times, is approached by a man with an odd commission.  Lady Anne Oldershaw's husband has passed away.  Now a wealthy widow, she would like to hire Holdsworth to catalogue her late husband's extensive library in order to donate it to Cambridge University.  However, before he undertakes that task, he must complete a more pressing one:  find Lady Anne's son Frank -- who is committed to a home for the mentally unstable under the claim that he has seen a ghost -- and return him to London.

Once in Cambridge, Holdsworth finds Frank in a manic state that is somehow connected to the mysterious death of Sylvia Whichcote, the wife of one of Frank's colleagues at Jerusalem College.  As Holdsworth tries to help Frank and unravel the mystery of Sylvia's death, he is drawn deeper into the secretive Cambridge community and encounters scholars, louche young men, enigmatic women, and street urchins in ready supply -- many connected to a secret society that meets within the college's walls.

Andrew Taylor delivers his most suspenseful thriller yet with fascinating characters, numerous twists and turns, and a compelling narrative that propels the reader along to a surprise ending.



About the author:  Andrew Taylor is the author of several crime and suspense novels.  He is the recipient of the Crime Writers' Association 2009 Cartier Diamond Dagger for sustained excellence in crime writing, among other awards.  His website is http://www.andrew-taylor.co.uk/ or www.facebook.com/TheAnatomyofGhosts.

~I received a complimentary copy of this book from Hyperion.  Watch for my review in late January.~


The Anatomy of Ghosts
Publisher/Publication Date: Hyperion, Jan 25, 2011
ISBN: 978-1-4013-0287-0
432 pages



Purchased Pages: Reader's Digest Select Editions Vol 6, 2010


The Mountain Between Us
by Charles Martin
Broadway

On a stormy winter night, two strangers wait for a flight at the Salt Lake City airport. Ashley Knox is an attractive, successful writer, who is flying East for her much anticipated wedding. Dr. Ben Payne has just wrapped up a medical conference and is also eager to get back East for a slate of surgeries he has scheduled for the following day. When the last outgoing flight is cancelled due to a broken de-icer and a forthcoming storm, Ben finds a charter plane that can take him around the storm and drop him in Denver to catch a connection. And when the pilot says the single engine prop plane can fit one more, if barely, Ben offers the seat to Ashley knowing that she needs to get back just as urgently. And then the unthinkable happens. The pilot has a heart attack mid-flight and the plane crashes into the High Uintas Wilderness-- one of the largest stretches of harsh and remote land in the United States.


Ben, who has broken ribs and Ashley, who suffers a terrible leg fracture, along with the pilot's dog, are faced with an incredibly harrowing battle to survive. Fortunately, Ben is a medical professional and avid climber (and in a lucky break, has his gear from a climb earlier in the week). With little hope for rescue, he must nurse Ashley back to health and figure out how they are going to get off the mountain, where the temperature hovers in the teens. Meanwhile, Ashley soon realizes that the very private Ben has some serious emotional wounds to heal as well. He explains to Ashley that he is separated from his beloved wife, but in a long standing tradition, he faithfully records messages for her on his voice recorder reflecting on their love affair. As Ashley eavesdrops on Ben's tender words to his estranged wife she comes to fear that when it comes to her own love story, she's just settling. And what's more: she begins to realize that the man she is really attracted to, the man she may love, is Ben.


As the days on the mountains become weeks, their survival become increasingly perilous. How will they make it out of the wilderness and if they do, how will this experience change them forever?


Both a tender and page-turning read, The Mountain Between Us will reaffirm your belief in the power of love to sustain us.

Nine Dragons
by Michael Connelly
Little, Brown and Company

Harry Bosch is assigned a homicide call in South L.A. that takes him to Fortune Liquors, where the Chinese owner has been shot to death behind the counter in an apparent robbery.


Joined by members of the department's Asian Crime Unit, Bosch relentlessly investigates the killing and soon identifies a suspect, a Los Angeles member of a Hong Kong triad. But before Harry can close in, he gets the word that his young daughter Maddie, who lives in Hong Kong with her mother, is missing.


Bosch drops everything to journey across the Pacific to find his daughter. Could her disappearance and the case be connected? With the stakes of the investigation so high and so personal, Bosch is up against the clock in a new city, where nothing is at it seems.

A Dog's Purpose
by W. Bruce Cameron
Forge Books

This is the remarkable story of one endearing dog’s search for his purpose over the course of several lives. More than just another charming dog story, A Dog’s Purpose touches on the universal quest for an answer to life's most basic question: Why are we here?


Surprised to find himself reborn as a rambunctious golden-haired puppy after a tragically short life as a stray mutt, Bailey’s search for his new life’s meaning leads him into the loving arms of 8-year-old Ethan. During their countless adventures Bailey joyously discovers how to be a good dog.


But this life as a beloved family pet is not the end of Bailey’s journey. Reborn as a puppy yet again, Bailey wonders—will he ever find his purpose?


Heartwarming, insightful, and often laugh-out-loud funny, A Dog's Purpose is not only the emotional and hilarious story of a dog's many lives, but also a dog's-eye commentary on human relationships and the unbreakable bonds between man and man's best friend. This moving and beautifully crafted story teaches us that love never dies, that our true friends are always with us, and that every creature on earth is born with a purpose.


This Time Together
by Carol Burnett
Harmony Books

THIS TIME TOGETHER is 100 percent Carol Burnett – funny, irreverent, and irresistible.


Carol Burnett is one of the most beloved and revered actresses and performers in America. The Carol Burnett Show was seen each week by millions of adoring fans and won twenty-five Emmys in its remarkable eleven-year run. Now, in This Time Together, Carol really lets her hair down and tells one funny or touching or memorable story after another – reading it feels like sitting down with an old friend who has wonderful tales to tell.


In engaging anecdotes, Carol discusses her remarkable friendships with stars such at Jimmy Stewart, Lucille Ball, Cary Grant, and Julie Andrews; the background behind famous scenes, like the moment she swept down the stairs in her curtain-rod dress in the legendary “Went With the Wild” skit; and things that would happen only to Carol – the prank with Julie Andrews that went wrong in front of the First Lady; the famous Tarzan Yell that saved her during a mugging; and the time she faked a wooden leg to get served in a famous ice cream emporium. This poignant look back allows us to cry with the actress during her sorrows, rejoice in her successes, and finally, always, to laugh.


ARC Arrival: Kick by Walter Dean Myers and Ross Workman


Kick
by Walter Dean Myers and Ross Workman
Harper Teen

For the very first time in his decades-long career writing for teens, acclaimed and beloved author Walter Dean Myers writes with a teen, Ross Workman.



Kevin Johnson is thirteen years old. And heading for juvie. He's a good kid, a great friend, and a star striker for his Highland, New Jersey, soccer team. His team is competing for the State Cup, and he wants to prove he has more than just star-player potential. Kevin's never been in any serious trouble . . . until the night he ends up in jail. Enter Sergeant Brown, a cop assigned to be Kevin's mentor. If Kevin and Brown can learn to trust each other, they might be able to turn things around before it's too late.


~I received a complimentary copy of this book from Harper Teen.  Please watch for my review in February 2011.~


About the authors: Critically acclaimed author Walter Dean Myers has garnered much respect and admiration for his fiction, nonfiction, and poetry for young people.  Winner of the first Michael L. Printz Award, five Coretta Scott King Awards, two Newbery Honors, and the first-ever Coretta Scott King-Virginia Hamilton Award for Lifetime Achievement, he is considered one of the preeminent writers for children.  He lives in Jersey City, New Jersey, with his family.  You can visit him online at http://www.walterdeanmyers.net/.

When Ross Workman was thirteen, he wrote a fan email to his favorite author.  When Walter Dean Myers wrote back and asked him whether he would be interested in writing a book, Ross was amazed -- and incredibly excited.  Four years later, Ross is seventeen and in eleventh grade at Westfield Senior High School.  In addition to writing, Ross plays a sport every season:  high school soccer in the fall, high school wrestling in the winter, and club travel soccer in the spring.  He has attended the Johns Hopkins Center for Talented Youth, plays alto and baritone saxophones, and has competed at the state level in the National Geographic Bee.  He lives in Westfield, New Jersey.

Kick
Publisher/Publication Date: Harper Teen, Feb 2011
ISBN: 978-0-06-200490-1
195 pages

Thursday, December 2, 2010

ARC Arrival: Unforgivable by Laura Griffin

Unforgivable
by Laura Griffin
Pocket Star Books

Tracing killers is Mia Voss's business...
And her work just got personal...

At first, Mia Voss thinks it's just bad luck when her already lousy day ends with a carjacking, but what seems like a random incident is followed by another sinister episode.  A DNA expert, Mia has made it her mission to put away vicious criminals.  Suddenly, she's become the target of one.  And the only way to protect the people she loves most is to deliberately destroy her reputation and risk letting a killer walk free.

Once, Mia trusted Detective Ric Santos, but that was before Ric let his turbulent past ruin his chances with Mia, the sexiest, most intriguing woman he's ever met.  But he can tell when she's lying -- and when she's scared.  The key to catching a sadistic madman lies within a long-buried cold case that has haunted Mia for years.  Only she can uncover the truth, but first, Ric will have to get her to entrust him with her secrets. . . and her life.



About the author: Laura Griffin started her career in journalism before venturing into the world of romantic suspense with her novels for Pocket Books.  Her books have won numerous awards, including a 2010 RITA and a 2010 Daphne du Maurier Award.  Laura currently lives in Austin, where she is working on the next book in her popular Tracers series.  Visit http://www.lauragriffin.com/ and be sure to follow Laura on Twitter @Laura_Griff.

~I received a complimentary copy of this book from Pocket Books.  Please look for my review in early January.~

Publisher/Publication Date: Pocket Star Books, Nov 2010
ISBN: 978-1-4391-5296-6
416 pages

To Kindle or Not To Kindle? PLEASE READ

It is that time of year when my husband is trying to figure out what I would like for Christmas.  The idea of a Kindle came up.  So, I am asking other book reviewers - do you have an E-reader and do you get books for review on them?  Also - if you do have an E-reader - which one do you prefer?  For publishers - do you have many review books available for Kindle?  (or Nook, etc)?

THANK YOU!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

New Giveaway - The False Friend by Myra Goldberg


It is time for a new giveaway!  I have 2 copies of The False Friend by Myra Goldberg to giveaway - courtesy of Doubleday Books.


From the bestselling author of Bee Season comes an astonishingly complex psychological drama with a simple setup - two eleven-year-old girls, best friends and fierce rivals, go into the woods.  Only one comes out. . .

Leaders of a mercurial clique, Celia and Djuna subjected each other and their three followers to an endless cycle of reward and punishment that peaked one afternoon when all five girls walked home along a forbidden road.  Djuna disappeared that day; Celia blocked out what happened.  It was assumed that Djuna was abducted, though neither she nor her abductor was ever found.

Twenty years later, Celia and her boyfriend Huck are professionally successful, but their relationship is in stasis.  When Celia's memory of that terrible day returns, she confronts her own responsibility for her best friend's disappearance and returns to her hometown to confess.  Her aging parents - their love handicapped by a lifetime of reserve - insist that she is innocent.  Her childhood friends don't believe her.  Huck wants to be supportive, but he can't ignore all that contradicts Celia's version of the past.

Deeply resonant and emotionally charged, The False Friend explores the adults that children become -- leading us to question the truths that we accept or reject, and the lies to which we succumb.



For the Giveaway:
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2. Additional entries - twitter, blog, etc about the giveaway and leave me the link
3.  Giveaway is open to US residents only and will end Dec 22.  Good luck!






Winners!



Dewey's Nine Lives - winner skkorman
















Montana Glory -  Winners -
Linda Henderson - already won! - new winner is J.L. Jackson
Karen
Patsy












All winners have been emailed and have 48 hours to contact me or remaining books will be given away on Twitter.


Twitter winner of Simply Irresistible - Heather!

Twitter winner of Two Lethal Lies  - Still up for grabs!  Follow me on twitter (@kherbrand) and DM message me to win!

ARC Arrival: Adam (Book 1 The Eden Chronicles) by Brian H. Winchester




by Brian H. Winchester
TM Publishing


He was named after the moist red earth from which he was formed.  His muscular body was just past the threshold of full manhood.  By current earthly standards he would have looked to be in his late teens.  His intellect was agile, sharp, and endowed with a deep understanding of the world he had just entered -- the kind of understanding that today would take a lifetime to develop.  What he couldn't learn by logical analysis he quickly grasped through a keen intuition that was emotional and spiritual at the same time.

Adam would need all these capabilities to fulfill the charge God had given him -- to cultivate the rich land of Eden in which he had been placed, and to protect and guard it.

But guard it from what?

Adam was about to find out.  Everything about life as he knew it hung in the balance of how well he accomplished that charge.  If he did well, he would protect not only his own life, but preserve the soul of every man and woman to follow.  If he failed, the consequences would be beyond even his ability to understand.

The was in Heaven was over.  The battle for Earth was about to begin.



About the author:  Brian Winchester, founder and president of Winchester Environmental Associates, Inc., is a professional environmental scientist.  He specializes in the evaluation of natural ecological systems and the effect of man upon them, and provides technical analysis and expert testimony.  Winchester has lived, worked and studied in over 30 countries, with a geographic focus in the southeastern United States and Caribbean.  His current areas of interest include the evolution/intelligent design debate, wilderness areas not yet visited, and Genesis and the Garden of Eden.  His writings include professional and non-fiction works, but Adam is his first novel.  He and his wife Deb reside in Tampa, Florida.

~I received a complimentary copy from Creative Resources.  Watch for my review by January 15.~


Adam: A Novel (The Eden Chronicles)
Publisher/Publication Date: TM Publishing, Oct 2010
ISBN: 978-0-9826665-9-3
240 pages





Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Life Book by Carl Blunt (Book Review)


Title: the life book
Author: Carl Blunt


My thoughts:  This little book (4" x 4" x 1/4" - approximately) packs a powerful punch. It is separated into 4 parts.  The first part is a summary -perfect for teens - of the Old Testament.  They refer to it as God's story before Jesus shows up on the scene.  Part two is the largest part of the book and comes straight from the Bible.  It's Jesus's story while he was on Earth.  Part three relates what you have learned to your own life - teen perspective.  Part four gives some Biblical guidance to some of teen's biggest questions - sex, peer pressure, self-esteem.

In addition to the actual typed text are footnotes scrawled throughout the entire book - like a teen taking notes on a book in class.  These note makers are 17-year old Dylan, 16-year-old Taylor, 16-year-old Vanessa and Pedro who is a freshman.  Adult notes are left by Gideon Williams.  They provide some nice insights to how a teenager perceives things from the Bible and even had me thinking twice about what I knew and what I was learning. 

I have included information below about the life book and the life book movement that was provided to me by TBB Media.  It sounds like a great movement and one that I will be sharing with my daughter's youth pastor. 


Become a fan at www.facebook.com/carlblunt and follow the movement at www.twitter.com/carlblunt.




~I was provided a complimentary copy of this book for review from TBB Media.~





Bible Smuggling 101

Legally Saturating High Schools with God’s Word

In today’s divisive culture-war society, when news stories about separation of church and state thrive with controversy, one cutting-edge Christian ministry is having remarkable success spreading the Word of God. What makes it remarkable? They are doing it by distributing Bibles in public schools—legally.

Carl Blunt is the president and CEO of The Life Book Movement, a Christian mission centered on Blunt’s own contemporary, youth-oriented edition of a portion of the Bible called The Life Book, a unique presentation of Scripture designed to engage high school students with the truth of God’s Word. The Life Book presents a brief overview of the Old Testament and the Book of John using an interactive format with honest student comments and real-life questions in the margins. Readers are drawn into the only story that can change their lives forever.

Founded by The Gideons International as an innovative strategy to reach high school students with God’s Word, The Life Book Movement works in collaboration with churches throughout the country to provide the books for free to high school students. Blunt’s organization brilliantly threads a separation-of-church-and-state loophole by getting his publication into the hands of Christian high school students and having them pass the books out to classmates at school—a practice that is entirely legal, as long as the books are not distributed by school staff or other adults. Blunt says, “It’s like we’re helping students smuggle God’s Word into a closed country (public high schools) to reach an unreached people group because studies show that only 4% of today’s teenagers are Bible-believing Christians.” The goal is to ensure that every student in every high school in the United States has an opportunity to receive the gift of The Life Book. This approach presents a phenomenal opportunity to impact a generation with the good news of Jesus Christ.

The Life Book Movement is best described to students as a week-long mission trip to their local high school. Local churches work together in targeted areas to ensure The Life Book is offered to every student in each chosen high school. All churches involved receive the books at no cost from The Life Book Movement and provide the books, along with some evangelism training, to the students in their youth groups. The students then spend a week passing them out to their friends and classmates at school. One student who received the book said, “I got one today. I read it in almost every class today. I like it. It’s pretty neat and other people asked to look at it and then asked where to get one.”

Flying under the radar since its inception last fall, The Life Book Movement is rapidly closing in on distribution of more than 300,000 copies in public high schools across 21 states and even the British Virgin Islands. A quiet success, indeed, but extremely ambitious, The Life Book Movement has an ultimate goal of distributing The Life Book to nearly 18 million high school students when all is said and done. And, so far, the outlook is extremely promising.

First Wild Card Tour: Pause for Power A 365 Day Journey in the Scriptures by Dr. Warren W. Wiersbe (Book Review)

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:

David C. Cook; 2 edition (November 1, 2010)
***Special thanks to Karen Davis, Assistant Media Specialist, The B & B Media Group for sending me a review copy.***

REVIEW: This is a great little devotional book. I have always enjoyed Dr. Wiersbe's studies. This devotional rates high on my list as the devotional part is short so it lets you focus more on the actual reading from the Bible that is suggested. You can read this in whatever translation that you want. The other high point is that the devotions are not dated - just Day 1, Day 2, Day 3 etc. I like this because if I miss a day, it is hard for me to get going again if they are dated. I feel like I have "failed". Where as just having Day 1, then it doesn't matter as much and when life gets in my way and I must forego a reading. This would make a great Christmas gift for anyone on your list.





ABOUT THE AUTHOR:




Dr. Warren W. Wiersbe is an internationally known Bible teacher and the former pastor of The Moody Church in Chicago. For ten years he was associated with the “Back to the Bible” radio broadcast, first as Bible teacher and then as general director. Dr. Wiersbe has written more than 160 books. He and his wife, Betty, live in Lincoln, Nebraska.



Product Details:

List Price: $16.99
Hardcover: 368 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook; 2 edition (November 1, 2010)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 078140374X
ISBN-13: 978-0781403740

AND NOW...THE FIRST WEEK OF DEVOTIONS:


A Year in the Word

In the pages that follow, you’ll hear Isaiah’s invitation to wayward hearts, wrestle with Job’s dilemma, examine what Hebrews says about the breathtaking work of Christ, and listen in as Paul writes letters to infant churches. Such a task might seem daunting at first, but with the help of Pause for Power, it will take you only a few minutes a day. And here’s the best part: Over the course of a year, you’ll have read fifteen books of the Bible.

The devotions are undated, so you can start any day of the year. They’re also blended, so you can enjoy a variety of biblical voices and themes each week. One day you might contemplate Paul’s letter to the Philippians, and the next you might consider a wise saying from Ecclesiastes.

To get started, simply turn to Day 1, read the associated Bible passage in your favorite translation, spend time with the devotion, then ponder the question of the day. Repeat daily. In twelve months you’ll have studied Job, Ecclesiastes, Isaiah, Romans, 1 and 2 Corinthians, Galatians, Philippians, Colossians, 1 and 2 Timothy, Hebrews, James, 1 Peter, and 1 John. But more importantly, you’ll have gained insight into God’s Word—insight that will bring you closer to the Author Himself.


Day 1

Consistent Actions

Read Romans 2:1—3:20

To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life. But for those who are self-seeking and who reject the truth and follow evil, there will be wrath and anger.

Romans 2:7–8

God had given Israel great material and spiritual riches: a wonderful land, a righteous law, a temple and priesthood, God’s providential care, and many more blessings. God had patiently endured Israel’s many sins and rebellions, and had even sent them His Son to be their Messiah. Even after Israel crucified Christ, God gave the nation nearly forty more years of grace and withheld His judgment. It is not the judgment of God that leads people to repentance, but the goodness of God; but Israel did not repent.

In Romans 2:6–11, Paul was explaining a basic principle of God’s judgment: God judges according to deeds, just as He judges according to truth. Paul was dealing here with the consistent actions of people’s lives, the total impact of their character and conduct.

True saving faith results in obedience and godly living, even though there may be occasional falls. When God measured the deeds of the Jews, He found them to be as wicked as those of the Gentiles.

Something to Ponder

Is it possible for people to grow to have consistently good (not perfect) character and conduct? If so, how? How does this fit with Paul’s claim that no one is righteous apart from Christ’s sacrifice (Rom. 3:9–10)?


Day 2

Devoted to Devotions

Read Colossians 4:2

Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.

Colossians 4:2

It has well been said that the purpose of prayer is not to get our will done in heaven, but to get God’s will done on earth. Prayer is not telling God what to do or what to give. Prayer is asking God for that which He wants to do and give, according to His will (1 John 5:14–15). As we read the Word and fellowship with our Father, we discover His will and then boldly ask Him to do what He has planned. Richard Trench (1807–1886), archbishop of Dublin, said it perfectly: “Prayer is not overcoming God’s reluctance; it is laying hold of His willingness.”

Of course, it is possible to pray in our hearts and never use the gift of speech (1 Sam. 1:13), but we are using words even if we don’t say them audibly. True prayer must first come from the heart, whether the words are spoken or not.

Something to Ponder

As you pray, in what ways are you “watchful”? In what ways are you “thankful”?


Day 3

The Mark of Maturity

Read Philippians 1:6–10

This is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ.

Philippians 1:9–10

Paul found joy in his memories of the friends at Philippi and in his growing love for them. He also found joy in remembering them before the throne of grace in prayer.

This is a prayer for maturity, and Paul began it with love. He prayed that they might experience abounding love and discerning love. Christian love is not blind! The heart and mind work together so that we have discerning love and loving discernment.

The ability to distinguish is a mark of maturity. When a baby learns to speak, he or she may call every four-legged animal a “bowwow.” But then the child discovers that there are cats, mice, cows, and other four-legged creatures.

One of the sure marks of maturity is discerning love and loving discernment.

Something to Ponder

With daily decisions, do you tend to seek what is good, or do you try to discern what is truly best?


Day 4

Avoiding Oblivion

Read 1 John 2:17

The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.

1 John 2:17

Every great nation in history has become decadent and has finally been conquered by another nation. Some nineteen world civilizations have slipped into oblivion. There is no reason why we should think that our present civilization will endure forever. “Change and decay in all around I see,” wrote Henry F. Lyte (1793–1847), and if our civilization is not eroded by change and decay, it will certainly be swept away and replaced by a new order of things at the coming of Christ.

Slowly but inevitably, and perhaps sooner than even we Christians think, the world is passing away, but those who do God’s will abide forever. Long after this world system—with its vaunted culture, its proud philosophies, its egocentric intellectualism, and its godless materialism—has been forgotten, and long after this planet has been replaced by the new heavens and the new earth (Rev. 21:1), God’s faithful servants will remain, sharing the glory of God for all eternity. And this prospect is not limited to Moody, Spurgeon, Luther, or Wesley and their likes—it is open to each and every humble believer. If you are trusting Christ, it is for you.

Something to Ponder

If you are expecting to share the glory of God for all eternity, what things are you doing now to prepare for such an encounter?


Day 5

Sovereignty and Responsibility

Read Romans 9:14–33

Is God unjust? Not at all! For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”

Romans 9:14–15

Moses was a Jew; Pharaoh was a Gentile, yet both were sinners. In fact, both were murderers! Both saw God’s wonders. Yet Moses was saved and Pharaoh was lost. Pharaoh was a ruler, and Moses was a slave, yet it was Moses who experienced the mercy and compassion of God—because God willed it that way. Nobody can condemn God for the way He extends His mercy, because God is righteous in His judgments (see Ps. 19:9 KJV).

Paul wrote of divine sovereignty and then human responsibility. Here is a paradox: The Jews sought for righteousness but did not find it, while the Gentiles, who were not searching for it, found it! The reason? Israel tried to be saved by works and not by faith. They rejected “grace righteousness” and tried to please God with “law righteousness.” The Jews thought that the Gentiles had to come up to Israel’s level to be saved, when actually the Jews had to go down to the level of the Gentiles to be saved.

Something to Ponder

When you can’t fully understand God’s working, what do you do to maintain your faith?


Day 6

Sins of the Saints

Read Hebrews 2:3–9

This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.

Hebrews 2:3

We have the idea that believers today “under grace” can escape the chastening hand of God that was so evident “under law.” But to whom much is given, much shall be required (Luke 12:48). Not only have we received the Word from the Son of God, but that Word has been confirmed by “signs, wonders and various miracles, and gifts of the Holy Spirit distributed according to his will” (Heb. 2:4). The phrase “signs and wonders” here refers to the miracles that witnessed to the Word and gave confirmation that it was true. Today we have the completed Word of God, so there is no need for these apostolic miracles. God now bears witness through His Spirit using the Word. The Spirit also gives spiritual gifts to God’s people so that they may minister in the church (1 Cor. 12:1–11).

I have often told the story about the pastor who preached a series of sermons on “the sins of the saints.” He was severely reprimanded by a church member. “After all,” said the member, “sin in the lives of Christians is different from sin in the lives of other people.”

“Yes,” replied the pastor, “it’s worse!”

Something to Ponder

Do you agree that sin in the lives of Christians is worse than sin in the lives of other people? Why?


Day 7

Heart Gifts

Read 2 Corinthians 8:10–24

Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it.

2 Corinthians 8:11

During my years of ministry, I have endured many offering appeals. I have listened to pathetic tales about unbelievable needs. I have forced myself to laugh at old jokes that were supposed to make it easier for me to part with my money. I have been scolded, shamed, and almost threatened, and I must confess that none of these approaches has ever stirred me to give more than I planned to give.

We must be careful here not to confuse willing with doing, because the two must go together. If the willing is sincere and in the will of God, then there must be a “completion of it” (2 Cor. 8:11; see Phil. 2:12–13). Paul did not say that willing was a substitute for doing, because it is not. But if our giving is motivated by grace, we will give more willingly.

God sees the “heart gift” and not the “hand gift.” If the heart wants to give more, but is unable to do so, God sees it and records it accordingly. But if the hand gives more than the heart wants to give, God records what is in the heart, no matter how big the offering in the hand may be.

Something to Ponder

Think about a time you gave willingly and a time you gave grudgingly. What made the difference?

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving!

I would like to welcome Steff Deschenes to Books and Needlepoint today.  She is sharing a guest post that is very appropriate for Thanksgiving.  Steff is the author of The Ice Cream Theory which I reviewed a few days ago - If you missed it - go back here and be sure to sign up for the giveaway there also!


I am thankful.


For still being able to climb apple trees.


For polar bears.


For the smell of the ocean.


For music that makes me cry and written works that stir my soul.


For French-press coffee.


I am thankful.


For being healthy . . .


. . . for being healthy enough.


I am thankful.


For the great state in which I live in and have specifically come back to and for time after time. I will never not be mesmerized by the beauty of autumn here – the way the trees ignite with color; I will never not be hypnotized by the first snow fall – the way it looks like a thousand tiny cold diamonds blanketing our pine trees.


For proving that I didn’t need a degree to be successful.


For living my dream of being an author.


For being able to pay my bills!


For living in a country where I can practice my religion, eat or not eat whatever I choose, wear whatever I want, think however I want, and thrive as an opinionated independent woman without fear of persecution.


I am thankful.


For my estranged dad who, although we’ve now parted ways after years of struggling to understand each other or even just see eye-to eye, permitted me to be the eccentric tomboy I was while growing up. For encouraging my mom to raise us in a liberal, worldy, socially conscious manner. And who, over the course of our time together, taught me some ridiculous things.


For my sister, who at some point in time crossed the line from just being a sibling to being a best friend, too. And who better to call a friend than her? She knew me when I was four, when I was fourteen, when I was twenty-four. And through all those life changes, she was right there. She is the only other person to go through most of what I went through, the one other person who knows every part of the comedy and tragedy that made up our family life.


For my mom. Always and forever, for my mom. The strongest, most courageous, most benevolent woman I know. She is the biggest champion of my cause, and the person who loves and appreciates every quirk about me the most. She has and always will bathe me in her love and support. As I look on towards my impending adulthood my only hope is that I can be half the woman, mother, wife, and Child of God she is.


For my step-parents. I don’t tell them enough how much I appreciate them. They make my parents happy, and that is ultimately the number one most important thing to me: the people I love and their happiness. And while they don’t have to, I appreciate their involvement in my life. They have their own children, they don’t need to remember little things about me, like how I take my coffee or how I get cranky when I haven’t slept, but they do. They are kind and lovely people.


I am thankful.


For my pet which, despite my occasional annoyance for his troublesome bunny ways, has become quite the companion. It’s oddly comforting to come home to a large empty flat and find this very small curious creature enthusiastically waiting for me. For me! And to be able to keep him and continue to care for him and his well-being, especially in an economy where daily people are giving up their small critter friends because they simply can’t afford them, warms my heart.


For friends far and close, the ones who touched my life very briefly yet altered it forever, and the ones who are in it for the long haul and cherish every moment whether remarkable or unimpressively trivial. They’ve supported my every endeavor, encouraged me to jump, kept me humble, and loved me unconditionally in spite of my awful self sometimes.


For the memories I have of the people I don’t.


Life and the living of it is imperfect and at times, downright difficult. I think we all need to take a deep breath and acknowledge that in that imperfection there is tremendous beauty. And maybe it’s me, but it seems terribly important as individuals and as a community of people that, even if only once a year, we take the time, we allow ourselves, to simply let our hearts overflow with gratitude and appreciation for everything, for all the things, big and small, that make living life wonderful and worthwhile.


I am thankful.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

What I Thought I Knew: A Memoir by Alice Eve Cohen (Book Review)


Title: What I Thought I Knew: A Memoir
Author: Alice Eve Cohen
Publisher: Penguin

About the book: At age forty-four, Alice Eve Cohen was happy for the first time in years.  After a difficult divorce, she was engaged to an inspiring man, she was joyfully raising her adopted daughter, and her career was blossoming.  Then she started experiencing mysterious symptoms.  After years of hormone replacement therapy and months of tests and X-rays, she was diagnosed with an abdominal tumor and rushed in for an emergency CAT scan that revealed the cause of her symptoms -- she was six months pregnant.

That was the first of many shocks in a pregnancy riddled with complications that threatened the lives of both mother and baby.  In her third trimester, with no prenatal care and no insurance coverage for high-risk pregnancy, Cohen was inundated by friends and doctors telling her what was ethical, what was loving, what was right. (from Penguin Books press release)

My thoughts: I am 44 years old myself, with an 18, 16 and 6 year old.  I was 38 1/2 when my son was born and have a chronic health condition which put me in the high risk category.  However, that being said, my situation seems miniscule compared to what Ms. Cohen went through. After accepting the fact that you were infertile, not using birth control for 14 years, then thinking you have cancer only to find out you are six months pregnant!  Wow!  Ms. Cohen shares her story with an openness and honesty that was surprising.  At the same time, the humor comes through.  She is able to write about the worst parts of her experience with a dark sarcasm that had me feeling a sense of shock one minute and smiling the next. I especially enjoyed the lists that pop up at the end of some of the chapters about "What I Know".

What I Thought I Knew: A Memoir
Publisher/Publication Date: Penguin, May 2010
ISBN: 978-0-14-311765-0
194 pages


Julia's Red Dress by Alice Eve Cohen - guest blogger

I am very excited to have Alice Eve Cohen as a guest blogger today!  I just finished her book, What I Thought I Knew, and loved it.  You will be seeing a review on this from me later today.  It was fun to read the story below about Julia now, after reading a little about her as a young girl.


JULIA’S RED DRESS

By Alice Eve Cohen


Hallelujah! I don’t have to apply to schools for my kids this year. Being a New York City parent is a school-application-intensive occupation. Even in the public school system, you have to go through a competitive application process to get a seat for your child in preschool, elementary school, middle school, and high school.


My older daughter, Julia, has always had very strong opinions about schools. The defining moment in her school application career came when she was just two years old. I was taking her in her stroller from preschool to preschool, in the hopes of finding a place for her within walking distance of our Upper West Side apartment.


At one of the first schools we visited, the director brought us into her office for the interview.


“Julia, would you show me how you play with these blocks?” she said.


Julia, looking adorable in her new red dress, smiled at the director…Then she pulled off her dress.


I quickly pulled Julia’s dress back on.


The director cleared her throat and repeated, “Julia, would you show me how you play with these blocks?”


Julia smiled at the director… And she pulled her dress off.


Again, I quickly put Julia’s red dress back on.


The director cleared her throat and said, sternly, “Julia, at this preschool, we do not take our clothes off!”


Julia looked at the director… and pulled her dress off.


Needless to say, Julia didn’t go to that preschool.



Two years later. I brought Julia to an interview for a public elementary school for academically gifted children. The room, filled with ambitious parents and children, was vibrating with competition.


“Mommy, I don’t want to go to this school. I want to go to the school near us with the playground.”


“You haven’t seen this school yet,” I said.


“Children in Group B, please line up and follow me,” said a teacher.


“Mommy, I hate this school,” said Julia.


“Julia, just give it a chance.”


“Mommy, if you make me go, I’m gonna have a tantrum.”


“Is your daughter in Group B,” asked the teacher, impatiently.


“Julia, please go with the teacher.”


“I warned you, Mommy.” She lay down and had a tantrum.


“Is your daughter ready to join us?” asked the teacher, looking down at my daughter who was kicking and screaming on the floor.


“Evidently not,” I said.






Needless to say, Julia did not go to that elementary school.






Thirteen years later. Julia was seventeen, and we were looking at colleges. As soon as we arrived at a university in New England, which sounded great on paper, she said, “I hate this school!”


“How do you know? You haven’t even seen it yet,” I said. “Let’s take the tour.” Michael and Eliana played on the lawn, while Julia and I followed the tour guide, an officious professor.


“Let’s leave,” Julia whispered to me, mid-tour.


“Give it a chance,” I whispered back.


Our tour guide led the group into the performing arts building. I was the last one on line, and the door to the building closed and locked just before I got to it. While I waited outside the building, Julia texted me from inside:


“MOM, GET ME OUT OF HERE!”


I called Michael's cell: “Warning! Julia's about to take off her red dress!”






Needless to say, Julia did not go to that university.






Cut to yesterday. Julia is 20. I visited her at college, the same school I went to, to see a play she was in, at the same campus theatre where I did plays when I was an in college. Princeton wasn’t originally one of Julia’s first choices, so it was a huge surprise to me when she decided to go there.


“I’m glad you went to Princeton,” I told her yesterday. “It’s so much easier to visit you here than it would have been if you’d gone to school on the West Coast. And besides,” I added, “I hear Princeton’s a pretty good school.”


“I love this school,” said Julia.


You can also find Alice on Facebook - Alice Eve Cohen and on Twitter - AliceEveCohen.


What I Thought I Knew: A Memoir
Publisher/Publication Date: Penguin, May 2010
ISBN: 978-0-14-311765-0
194 pages

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