BookSparks Summer Reading Challenge: Love and Other Foreign Words by Erin McCahan

Here is the second review book for the BookSparks 2014 Summer Reading Challenge.  I don't know about you - but it hasn't felt like spring around here yet, let alone summer!  We saw snow earlier this week - Winter, I am so over you!

Love and Other Foreign Words

by Erin McCahan

Josie lives her life in translation.  She speaks High School, College, Friends, Boyfriends, Break-ups, and even the language of Beautiful Girls.  But none of these is her native tongue.  And Love?  The most foreign language of all.  So when being fluent in True Love becomes the only way to avert a sure catastrophe, Josie is forced to examine her feelings for the boy who says he loves her, the sister she loves but doesn't always like, and the best friend who hasn't said a word -- at least not in a language Josie understands.  

Insightful, poignant, and laugh-out-loud funny, this is an irrepressible love story about sisters, friends, boys, and how it feels to find someone, at last, who speaks your language. 

My thoughts: I loved Josie!  She was funny, smart, loyal - but it was probably her quick-wit and dry humor that endeared me to her the most.  I wish that I could be as quick with the comebacks.  As her family says, she is 15 going on 30 - and she juggles as much as some 30 year olds.  She is a sophomore in high school in the afternoon, but as part of an accelerated program she is also a freshman in college in the mornings.  She plays volleyball, runs track, and is very close with her family - which include two older sisters.  

She is okay with her oldest sister's husband, but when her middle sister comes home engaged, she has a hard time finding anything to like about him.  She spends the majority of the book trying to find reasons to make her sister break up with him, or at least to make her family see that they are not right together.  She is enthralled with languages and believes that everyone has their own language, and you won't really fit in if you don't speak their language. 

This made me think about the situations that I find personally to be the most uncomfortable - and when it comes down to it, it is because I don't feel that I will be able to speak the right language to fit in.  Knowing this, I think it will make me approach some situations differently - and without such trepidation.  

Something else that she wrote that stuck with me is "It's easier to hate than to hurt."  Just think about that for awhile and I am sure you will come up with an instance that you could apply this to your own life.  I am passing this book along to my daughters.

~I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookSparks PR in exchange for my unbiased review.~

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About the author: Erin McCahan is the author of the YA book I Now Pronounce You Someone Else (Scholastic, June 2010). 
Erin’s debut novel was a 2010 Cybils Award finalist. She grew up in Michigan and worked extensively 
with teenagers before beginning her writing career. She lives in Columbus, Ohio. 

Author Links:
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All the books for the challenge:

May:

The One and Only by Emily Giffin - reviewed May 12

Love and Other Foreign Words by Erin McCahan

Cure for the Common Breakup by Beth Kendrick

June:

The Witch of Belladonna Bay by Suzanne Palmieri

The Revealed by Jessica Hickam

The Walk In Closet by Abdi Nazemian

July:

Elly in Love by Colleen Oakes

After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Serenade by Emily Kiebel

Queen of Hearts Vol. 2 by Colleen Oakes

August:

Gravel on the Side of the Road by Kris Raddish

The Curse of Van Gogh by Paul Hoppe

Wild Within by Melissa Hart

Add-ons

My Last Kiss by Bethany Neal

In Bloom by Katie Delahanty

BookSparks Summer Reading Challenge: The One and Only by Emily Giffin

I am very excited to be a part of BookSparks Summer Reading Challenge and am kicking it off with my reivew of The One and Only by Emily Giffin!  To see a full list of the review books, continue reading to the bottom of the post.

The One and Only

by Emily Giffin

Thirty-three-year-old Shea Rigsby has spent her entire life in Walker, Texas—a small college town that lives and dies by football, a passion she unabashedly shares. Raised alongside her best friend, Lucy, the daughter of Walker’s legendary head coach, Clive Carr, Shea was too devoted to her hometown team to leave. Instead she stayed in Walker for college, even taking a job in the university athletic department after graduation, where she has remained for more than a decade.

But when an unexpected tragedy strikes the tight-knit Walker community, Shea’s comfortable world is upended, and she begins to wonder if the life she’s chosen is really enough for her. As she finally gives up her safety net to set out on an unexpected path, Shea discovers unsettling truths about the people and things she has always trusted most—and is forced to confront her deepest desires, fears, and secrets.

Thoughtful, funny, and brilliantly observed, The One & Only is a luminous novel about finding your passion, following your heart, and, most of all, believing in something bigger than yourself . . . the one and only thing that truly makes life worth living.

My thoughts:  This book started out slow for me, but I was interested enough in Shea that I kept reading.  I soon became invested in Shea's life, wanting to know who she would end up with as well as what career path she would take.  

Shea was raised by her mother, but considers her best friend Lucy's family as her own as well.  When Lucy's mother Connie dies, it leaves a hole in all of their lives, including Coach Carr, her husband, who is also the winning coach of Walker football and has been for years.  Shea's relationship with Coach Carr has changed over the years, from him being her best friend's dad, to mentor, to friend.  She understands and is involved in football in a way that Lucy is not, so is closer to coach than his own daughter.  He has most recently given her a lead on a job that would finally get her out of the Walker atmosphere and start a life of her own.  

The relationships in this book were complex and messy.  And that is what I liked best.  The author does not back away from the uncomfortable, but meets it head on.  She explores unlikely attractions as well as unhealthy ones.  She shows us that what might appear perfect on the outside sometimes hides ugly secrets and the things that make us uncomfortable might really be what's worth fighting for.

I will definitely pick up another book by Emily Giffin!

~I received a complimentary ecopy of The One and Only from BookSparks and Net Galley in exchange for my unbiased review as part of the BookSparks Summer Reading Challenge.~

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THE ONE AND ONLY
by Emily Giffin
Random House; May 20, 2014
432 pages; $28.00 U.S.
ISBN- 978-0-345-54688-3

Check out all the great books that will be reviewed this summer!

May:

The One and Only by Emily Giffin

Love and Other Foreign Words by Erin McCahan

Cure for the Common Breakup by Beth Kendrick

June:

The Witch of Belladonna Bay by Suzanne Palmieri

The Revealed by Jessica Hickam

The Walk In Closet by Abdi Nazemian

July:

Elly in Love by Colleen Oakes

After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid

Serenade by Emily Kiebel

Queen of Hearts Vol. 2 by Colleen Oakes

August:

Gravel on the Side of the Road by Kris Raddish

The Curse of Van Gogh by Paul Hoppe

Wild Within by Melissa Hart

Add-ons

My Last Kiss by Bethany Neal

In Bloom by Katie Delahanty

The Song Remains the Same by Allison Winn Scotch (Book Review)

Title: The Song Remains the Same
Author: Allison Winn Scotch
Publisher: G. P. Putnam


About the book: She's a wife, a sister, a daughter. . . but she remembers nothing.  Now she must ask herself who she is and choose which stories -- and storytellers -- to trust.


From the New York Times-bestselling author comes a novel that asks:  Who are we without our memories?  And how much of our future is defined by our past?


One of only two survivors of a plane crash, Nell Slattery wakes in the hospital with no memory of it -- or who she is, or was.  Now she must piece together both body and mind -- with the help of family and friends who all have their own agendas.  Her husband, Peter, is trying to erase his recent affair and pending divorce from their marital history.  Her mother is trying to sweep the real story of Nell's long-lost father under the rug.  And Rory, her sister and business partner, is trying to protect their volatile relationship with stories of her own.  Although Nell can't remember all that came before, wondering just doesn't sit right with their version of her history. . . 


Desperate for a key to unlock her past, Nell filters through photos, art, and music -- anything to puzzle together the woman she truly was.  The woman she is.  In the end, she will learn that forgiving betrayals small and large is the only true path to healing herself -- and to finding happiness.
 

My thoughts:  I am still trying to decide what to think of this book.  It was not one of those books that compelled me to read it, but I did anyway.  Where it didn't leave me breathless at the end, it did make me think about some things along the way.  


When Nell woke up after the crash, her mom and husband were by her bedside -- though she did not know that is who they were.  Anderson, the only other survivor and an actor, credits her with keeping him calm and saving him, but she remembers none of this either.  Slowly, her mom, husband and sister Rory start to tell her about her life, and she doesn't like the picture that is starting to emerge.  She imagines that she was fun and decisive and grabbed life by the horns, but instead finds out she was "beige" and nicknamed the Ice Queen.   She decides that is not who she wants to be again, and since she has a clean slate, and no memory of her past, why not be someone new?  

Anderson was probably my favorite character.  He was also trying to change his life after surviving the crash, but he also made no excuses for his behavior.  He was very protective of Nell, especially with the paparazzi.  He wasn't romantic with her, and didn't make advances, but was there whenever she needed him and even showed up with out her asking him too.  Where he could definitely be an a** with the opposite sex, with Nell he was very respectful and considerate.  

This book made me think though, if my slate were wiped clean tomorrow, who would I be?  Imagine, waking up with no memory of your childhood, or college (or your first marriage - lol)  How would that change you as a person?  What kind of resentments and grudges does a person harbor without even realizing it and how does that shadow your actions?  

So, I guess I would have to say that I did enjoy the book, because it did make me think about these questions.  Though it didn't help me get over my fear of flying any!

~I received a complimentary copy of this book from BookSparksPR in exchange for my review.~

The Song Remains the Same

Publisher/Publication Date: Putnam Adult, April 12, 2012

ISBN: 978-0-399-15758-5

320 pages

18+